Did you know the antidote to burnout is self-compassion? Here’s a simple practice to get you started.

Burnout often results from prolonged stress, perfectionism, and self-criticism, which drain energy, lower motivation, and affect physical and mental health.

Self-compassion is a powerful countermeasure. It:

🤕 Reduces Self-Criticism: Instead of harshly judging yourself for perceived shortcomings or mistakes, self-compassion promotes kindness.

💪 Promotes Emotional Resilience: By acknowledging your struggles without judgment, you activate the body's relaxation response, helping you cope better with stress.

😌 Encourages Rest and Recovery: Self-compassion fosters self-care practices, helping you recognise when you need rest, and to recharge without guilt.

🧬 Fosters Connection: Recognising our common humanity reduces feelings of isolation, reminding you that everyone faces challenges and you're not alone in your struggles.

Why It Works:
💡 Mindfulness helps you stay present with your emotions, so you can process them rather than suppress them.
🌍 Common Humanity helps you see your experiences as part of the shared human condition, reducing feelings of isolation.
💛 Self-Kindness ensures you treat yourself gently, and with patience, allowing you to bounce back from setbacks without guilt or shame.

Together, these aspects of self-compassion reduce stress, improve emotional regulation, and prevent burnout, allowing you to remain energised, focused, and motivated.

The Practice - Self-Compassion Break - 3 steps (see image)

💡 1. Mindfulness: Acknowledge your feelings
Stress, frustration, fatigue—whatever you’re feeling, simply notice it. Pause and acknowledge your emotions without judgement.

🌍 2. Common Humanity: Knowing you are not alone
Remembering you’re not alone in your struggle, with high expectations, unrealistic deadlines, and the end of year rush. Embracing the idea of ‘common humanity’ helps you to feel more connected and less isolated in your challenges.

💛 3. Self-Kindness: Be gentle with yourself
When things don’t go as planned or you’re feeling stretched, can you respond with kindness—not criticism. Treat yourself as you would a close friend: offer empathy, patience, and understanding. This helps you recover faster and avoid self-criticism.

By practicing self-compassion in this way, you can reduce the negative effects of stress, enhance focus, and prevent burnout—allowing you to finish the year in a good state of mind.

If you’re struggling with stress or burnout, feel free to reach out. As a therapeutic coach and counsellor I offer 1:1 support to help you, whether it is finding ways to integrate self-compassion into your busy life or to thrive during challenging times.

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